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They would give each other their loyalty, and raise kids together. Evidently, most men and women preferred the latter and so started the beautiful concept of family. All this is to say there are plenty of reasons many women prefer sex in a committed relationship, not all having to do with procreation. Some of us have a complicated view of one night stands, for others, it's stress-free and fun.
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I sometimes feel like casual sex is like a transaction if we don't cuddle or do stuff afterwards. It's a shitty feeling if he's texting other girls.
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I never expect anything special out of it. I've never caught feelings for anyone during a hookup, and I know for a fact that I will not find a guy I want to settle down with through this route.
Guys who want to have sex right after they meet you aren't usually the guys that want anything serious.
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I am a very sexual person, and I believe my needs should be met. Maybe I am so emotionally detached because of my bad experiences, but I am not putting up with the misogyny BS anymore! Meaningless sex; the concept of no-strings-attached isn't as uncomplicated as the term itself sounds.
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I'd prefer sex in a committed relationship. It's beautiful—there's a point you'd feel your souls connecting. You have faith in the person; you feel safe; you can be yourself.
The only reason I still like the idea of casual sex it because I sometimes feel love is impossible to find. So, I would incline towards casual sex to satisfy my sexual needs. Men say we're all for women, but then the first thing they'd notice Women want casual sex Collinston a woman is her body.
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They are fascinated by big boobs and butts. If I can't have that it's really hard to find someone who'd like me—but I don't care. I like myself and still want to be in control to fulfill my desires. In casual sex, I feel I have the power to call the shots and ask for what I want directly.
It gives me a kind of confidence and strength that "Yeah! I'm the alpha. Orgasms make you happy—it's a simple natural process. I'm in my zone, and I'm satisfied. I go for casual sex just to satisfy my Women want casual sex Collinston until I find someone I connect with.
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I think about if I want to have sex with a person before and do it. Sex does make me happy, but I don't like the idea of casual sex.
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It's one of the worst kind of depressions where you feel lonely especially if Colinston insecure and emotional like me. There's a huge tendency that you'd end up settling for whatever you can get, and most of the times it is way less than you deserve.
It just damages you. I had a crush on this one guy when I was 18 and one day we just hung out, Women want casual sex Collinston that lead to us making out and then having sex. I felt kinda happy. This was my first hooking up and sleeping with someone. Back then I thought if we hooked up, it would lead us to a relationship, but it didn't.
We just became friends with benefits. Casual sex does not empower me; It makes me feel really bad at times, because I'm a type of person that overthinks on basically everything, so if I've had casual sex, I would be upset Women want casual sex Collinston day and just ask myself stupid questions like "why did Beautiful women want sex Midlothian do it?
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I have never had casual sex. Never even thought of it.
Being raised in a society where having sex or even dating before marriage is frowned upon—to figure out your own thoughts becomes a challenge. You just get used to living according to societal standards.