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Like Geoff mentioned, don't worry about what your mates say, do they respect women, are they exaggerating a little, who knows. He also gave you some good tips on how to communicate with people in general.
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Hi everyone, thanks for your replies and input. I really appreciate it. I would have replied to this post earlier but life has gotten in the way.